History of the Traditional Reveal… and Why You Should Consider a First Look!
January 26, 2015
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Most DCW couples understand the benefits of doing a First Look on their wedding day and it isn’t often that I have to “sell” someone on the concept. That’s a good thing because, in all honesty, I don’t really like pushing my clients into doing a First Look because it is really a personal decision However, at the end of the day, I know how much value it brings to the wedding experience and I feel really strongly about them – so I always want to present the benefits of doing a First Look to my clients. In my opinion, the First Look is a wonderful NEW tradition for weddings!
Historically, the traditional reveal was done out of necessity due to the practice of arranged marriage. The bride + groom weren’t allowed to see each other before the ceremony because there was always the possibility that either of them would run for the hills once they saw who they were marrying! Families couldn’t have that, seeing as arranged marriages were more of a financial transaction than anything else – and thus, the traditional reveal was born. Romantic, right?!
Through the years, obviously, marriage has evolved into something much more – a consensual union – and therefore, the true purpose of the traditional reveal doesn’t necessarily apply. However, many people still consider this antiquated tradition just because it is something that is familiar to them + their families. I challenge all DCW couples to question this tradition and ask themselves – is the traditional reveal the right choice for us? Does it make sense to us as a couple? Will it enhance or hinder things on our wedding day? All I can really ask is that my couples at least consider a First Look.
As wedding photography evolves and the wedding becomes more of an experience than anything else, the First Look really adds so much to the wedding day in terms of the flow of the day, the timeline of the day, the quality of your wedding photos, and the amount of time you actually get to spend together on your wedding day! Don’t get me wrong… traditions are wonderful, but only when they are meaningful. I strongly believe that the First Look is a new tradition that is definitely worth considering!
With a well-worn passport in hand, and an affinity for a good cocktail, Dana works with fun-loving and kind-hearted clients around the globe.
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