I recently got an email from a panicked bride. She had hired a videographer for her wedding day months in advance, but she hadn’t heard from him in a while. Since they were only a month out from their big day, she decided to reach out to him via email and the emails were returned to her as undeliverable. After some digging, she found out that the videographer had passed away months ago and she had no idea! No one had contacted her and now, a month out from her wedding day, she was scrambling to find a replacement. I felt horrible for her, but I was also kind of angry because this situation should NEVER happen! This is exactly why vendors need to have a contingency plan in place.
I know, I know… it’s a morbid topic. But as a small business owner, you have to think about these things!! Our clients are trusting us with something sacred – their wedding day – and they are relying on us, as professionals, to show and up do the job we were hired to do. If, God forbid, something were to happen to you – what would happen to your clients and your business? Would anyone know what to do on your behalf?

For a lot of people, the answer is no. As small business owners, we are generally the only ones who really know the ins and outs of our business. The account numbers, the passwords, the PINs, the workflow, the resources. That is often not freely shared with others. But it’s imperative that we, as small business owners, plan for the worst. If we were incapacitated, we need to have a system in place so that our clients aren’t left high and dry.
Creating a contingency plan isn’t hard. Simply open a Word document and start typing. Here are some things you should have saved in this document:
As you are writing all of this information out, write it in a way that is easy to understand. Remember – whoever you put in charge of your contingency plan most likely doesn’t know the ins and outs of your business nor are they familiar with the systems you use to run your business. You should be leaving them with easy-to-follow directions on what needs to be done and how to accomplish that as quickly and efficiently as possible.

Once you have written all of this out, be sure to send it to at least two people who can serve as executors of this contingency plan. For me, it’s my sister + my mom. I asked them to make sure they save this document in a safe place and, if anything ever happens to me, they need to follow the instructions I’ve prepared for them so that my clients aren’t left hanging. They think it’s super morbid and even call it my “death doc”. But seriously… even if I’m incapacitated, seriously injured, or critically ill, I need that peace of mind to know that I’ve taken every precaution I can to ensure that my business, my reputation, and my amazing clients are taken care of in my absence.
If you haven’t already done this, DO IT NOW!!! This is such an important thing to have, especially when you have clients who are depending on you for such a major event in their life. Don’t put it off. It’s your responsibility as a small business owner to plan for the worst and make sure that you are prepared for any situation that may arise… including your death.
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